One of Nollywood’s finest, actress Bayray McNwizu, has made a shocking revelation about relationships and specs. She stated that if women don’t shoot their shot at men they love they might be wasting their own time.
The actress was recently a guest on Saturday Beats, and during the interview she advised women to know when to start asking men out, and when to stop.
According to her a woman need to self conscious about herself so as to avoid her appearing desperate before men.
She said;
“There are pros and cons when it comes to women ‘shooting their shots.’ If one does not want to waste one’s time, just find out what is working. It is always about knowing where to apply the gauge, knowing when to proceed, how fast to move and when to stop. These things are so important. If one likes somebody as a woman, know how to proceed and know how fast one can take action.
Also, know when to stop because one cannot afford to look desperate. A woman needs to have a healthy self-concept about herself and know that she is a queen. If a woman wants to be in a man’s life, that woman has to bring a lot of value to the table. If the man cannot see that, then the woman should help him. If the man is interested, he will chase the woman. If he is not, then the both the man and the woman can settle for friendship. It’s even more valuable to have friendships that can blossom into other things as opposed to immediate romantic relationships.”
